Girl.

A teenager once asked an old man, 

"in a relationship, which is more important:

to be loved or to love?" 

Then he replied,

 "which is more important to a bird? 

The left wing or the right?"

And the harsh reality of life is that you are going to hurt. 

You're going to cry over a silly boy ; 

your heart's going to be broken.

But you have to pull yourself together so 

people don't see how vulnerable you are because once people see vulnerability; 

they take advantage over you.

And the whole process starts all over again.

Please,

 don't ever ask me why it happen but just let it happen,

just follow the path of the life. 

p/s: Sometimes you should  just  stop asking.